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be nice!...or not 27.2.2010
a girl like you, but you are not attracted to her or the fact
that she dropped out of high school....so instead of telling
her that - you just say " I don't want a relationship
at this time". but she is relentless, wanting to hang
out as friends. to be blunt, she just isnt getting it. so,
maybe not wanting to hurt someones feelings isnt a safe
outlet...?
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Is chivalry still out there? 27.2.2010
I would hope politeness is still alive and well in today's
swinging lifestyle..I mean...So many unanswered e-mails...just
makes ya wonder how some people are being brought up.? It's
not hard to reply to a nice email someone took the time to
write. At least this is our take on it. What do you think?
We dont respond to nasty emails...or one liners....But
a well thought out email goes a long way to ...
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Easier for Women to Say No? 22.2.2010
Is it easier for a woman to say "No thanks" then
a man?
When meeting for the first coffee, I am not always interested
in following through. But I also feel like I can't say
no at that point. I have, and it wasn't well received
even though I did try to be gentle.
I am wondering if the male stereotype comes into play: men
don't say no to sex.
Women are propositioned more ...
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no thank you 11.1.2010
Hey everyone it's ok to say no thank you. When you do
people should respect that.
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when saying no thanks politely doesn't go over 8.1.2010
sometimes it seems like i am very careful to pick my wording
in my response, and i am still treated very rudely to someone
i didn't pursue in the first place. i try to say things
that won't hurt any feelings, stay respectful, and
still are firm that i am not interested. i am wondering what
everyone else does when this doesn't seem to do the
trick and now some rude person won't leave me alone.
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Say 'no thanks' the right way 7.1.2010
Overview: It's a good practice to let job candidates
know when they haven't gotten the job. Use this sample
thanks-but-no-thanks letter to build goodwill with people
who may be a better match for future positions.
One of the least pleasant aspects of the hiring process
is conveying to candidates your decision to pass them over.
But if you've decided to eliminate someone from contention ...
5 Kommentare, 57 Angesehen,
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I'm not sure how to say it but.... "No Thanks" 18.12.2009
Recently, I received an invitation to a 'party'
that included men and women having fun, as we do. The invitation
was amazing as it had me down as one of the one kinda-single
guys to be there.
My arousal peaked as well as my normal paranoias of being
discreet. I emailed back that I would be interested and
a day later received the location and address. It also included
the caveat that i ...
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Is it better to ignore 18.12.2009
I was just wondering how many people out there, have expressed
intrest in someone, who wrote, only to be ignored by the
person.Isn't it more polite to kindly say your not
intrested, then to ignore the person and leave them hanging?
5 Kommentare, 119 Angesehen,
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Big Girls 10.12.2009
I'm looking for a kind way to walk away from big girls
on this site without hurting anyone's feelings. Can
someone please offer some advice.
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being polite but firm 9.12.2009
Well having read a few of the articles - it seems we're
all more or less on the same frequency as it were.
Ive had quite a few occasions in the past where despite what
my profile says - ie in a relationship and not looking to
play, a few folks have been rather insistent - Ive found
it an exercise in politeness but also firmness.
There do seem to be quite a few people for whom no ...
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How do you tell a couple no thanks after meeting them? 5.12.2009
Weve not had to experience this yet because all the couples
we played with were great, but how do you tell a couple no
after meeting up with them and it's not what you want?
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I know, we've all encountered someone who... 29.11.2009
... can't take a hint, a direct "no thanks",
or even sometimes a baseball bat over the head to understand
that you're not interested. Especially the ones that are standard members and can't
read profiles, but still can't grasp it when you describe
your situation/desires and keep pressing to meet you.
Someone needs to design hardware so you can send an electric
shock back to someone who ...
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respect for the individual 4.11.2009
Lets prove some of these nay Sayers wrong and show that we
can be grown ups' and get together for real hook ups.Life's
too short for lead on's and game playing.Just be true
to others and leave the mind games away from this place.Know
one would want to be treated like that, what makes it okay
for you to do it to others.Just be yourself, life's
too short!!
1 Kommentare, 29 Angesehen,
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when just saying no isnt enough... 1.11.2009
Guy: I would go to the end of the world for you! Girl: Yea but would you stay there?
Man:is this seat empty?
Woman:yes and this one will be too if you sit down!
Man:your bodys like a temple
Woman:sorry no sevice today.
Him: your place or mine
You: both, you go to yours, and i will go to mine
Sleazy Guyo you come here often? ...
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Taking a break 25.10.2009
It came suddenly I'm sure for my husband but one night,
I asked him how he would feel about suspending our Transen Kontakte account
temporarily. He asked why...my reply....I just want to
take a break. It seemed like so much pressure to have sex
with EVERYONE and that is NOT who I am or he is for that matter.
I wanted to slow down and get back to us and remember what
it was to feel passion instead of just ...
8 Kommentare, 262 Angesehen,
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No Thanks 13.10.2009
How can another person say that they didnt c the sign when
a person is no interest n then u shouldnt have 2 hurt some
1 feeling 2 say No Thanks !That person already knows they
just dont want 2 accept the facts , no calls, no chat, no
time and they cant get the picture mmmmmmmmm They got just
leave me alone can they get that Live, Laugh, Love!
2 Kommentare, 61 Angesehen,
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Nancy Reagan said it 1st 12.10.2009
Yes she did!
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i never say no 29.9.2009
no is not in my vocabulary especially when it comes to sex
i will always try it atleast once! it is ok to say no but i just
never do!
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just say so 24.9.2009
I remember old saying that went something like this:treat
others the way you would want to be treated...Life's
too short for games---don't lead others on.It's
just not cool.A simple "no Thanks" should work
just fine...
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How saying " No Thanks"? 18.9.2009
Hello all,
Many ladies are trying to contact me here... In some I am interest and in other I am not. When you are not
interest in someone you can build a real realation, right?
or even be honest in your feeling? Is there a way to say No thanks smoothly without hearting
her?
thx
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Here's one way ! 25.8.2009
Just tell whoever that your seeing someone and you don't
want to cheat on them. ...
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too what 10.8.2009
never say never to sex drugs always say no and then u will
be safe
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passing 4.8.2009
whats the best line you used to reject someone
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What's worse? 22.7.2009
Being horny as hell and laying in bed next to a hot chick or
guy you can't fuck (for whatever reason) or being horny
as hell and laying in bed next to a hot chick/guy that won't
fuck you?
8 Kommentare, 70 Angesehen,
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Really No Thanks? 21.7.2009
Saying No is not taken lightly by some.Saying No Thanks
is a strong suggestion that the person really means the
opposite. Men are attracted to women who use the NO word and always
confuse the situation by thinking it means YES. For the life of me I cannot understand why? People are the same anywhere you go. They argue about everything
then say no. When the opportunity comes for them to say really ...
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When to run away?? 29.6.2009
Recently I met up with a lady in Cambridge who seemed on the
surface to be a normal, relatively sexy woman. She had a
few more tattoos than I was expecting but they seemed tasteful.
She was in pretty good shape and it turned out she was a black
belt in karate. On leaving the bar where we met I asked is
she was ticklish and she said no and dont - I took this to mean
please tickle me now, but when ...
7 Kommentare, 170 Angesehen,
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Fatal attraction ! 9.6.2009
Fatal attractions can come from just merely saying,
"No thanks!"
Have you ever known this to happen to anyone near to you?
...
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Not saying no means no? 2.6.2009
How many of you just leave an email unanswered if you're
not interested?
How many of you actually reply to say "No thanks"?
18 Kommentare, 173 Angesehen,
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Ok this has been on my mind... 3.5.2009
so i have a general guideline when it comes to guys, i prefer
guys between 18 and 26, but it seems that i get more emails
and IMs from guys who are over 26...how do i nicely let them
down?
9 Kommentare, 212 Angesehen,
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How do YOU handle this? 26.4.2009
Let's say you have made a connection here (or on another
site, whatever...) and you finally meet. You discover
that there is just not a good connection there, or no real
attraction... what do you say? How do you handle that situation
without hurting their feelings? This has happened to me
a couple times, and I never want to hurt someone's feelings,
but you also can't pretend there's a ...
11 Kommentare, 205 Angesehen,
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