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why is it so hard 5.7.2008
I have found that many people will just ignore you instead
of just saying I am not interested. Why? I wouldn't
do that to anyone, so, lets just have some common manners.
1 Kommentare, 16 Angesehen,
2 Stimmen
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It sucks when it happens to you 5.7.2008
Married? No thanks. No offense, but if you're not being
satisfied by your man, then leave him, but don't go
looking for some side fun. My first wife cheated on me, and
knowing what it feels like, no matter how hot she is, if she's
married, I'm the one that has to sleep with my conscience
at night. I know there are people who disagree with me, though.
Your thoughts?
1 Kommentare, 61 Angesehen,
8 Stimmen
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is it too much to expect an actual rejection when getting rejected? 25.6.2008
Is it just me or do people who reject you via ignoring you
just piss you off.. at least tell me to go fuck off.. I recently
met up with a woman I met on here.. drove about an hour to meet
up with her.. brought a friend for her roomate.. shared
photos and talked on the phone for days.. could tell within
the first five minutes she didnt want me there.. she eventually
went to bed about an hour into ...
2 Kommentare, 85 Angesehen,
3 Stimmen
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Lets be adults 28.5.2008
Most people ( men especially ) are too cowardly on this front
and will bumble around making until the other person gets
upset and annoyed.Be honest and upfront, we are all adults
on here and should be able to take the rejection by now ;O
0 Kommentare, 52 Angesehen,
5 Stimmen
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"No thanks" 26.5.2008
5/25/09 Most people appreciate when you're being
upfront with them. If it's "Sorry, I'm not
interested." "No thanks." It's
all the same, people on this site, and in general have been
around enough, that they should be able totake no as no,
and keep on going.
4 Kommentare, 72 Angesehen,
1 Stimmen
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"I didn't want to hurt him" 22.5.2008
I don't understand why women blow off men because they
"don't want to hurt them". I've seen
this happen many times with friends (male and female),
and to myself as well. A guy will ask a girl out, she's
not interested but she doesn't want to reject him so
she says yes, even gives out her phone #, with no intention
of ever going out on a date with the guy. If you're not
interested, just say so! ...
2 Kommentare, 58 Angesehen,
11 Stimmen
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Working in a bar 1.5.2008
Working in a bar is definately a great thing, i believe everybody
would agree. Free drinks, great girls around you and of
course the sex. Yet, it is not always a sexy girl that is trying
to get you. Then what do one do? Just gets drunk enough? Or
runs away? Saying no can be a challenge...it is not really
pleasant, you know. We all have been there- been said "No
thanks" in one way or another. More ...
3 Kommentare, 96 Angesehen,
12 Stimmen
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Do men find it hard to say "no"? 1.5.2008
When my man is propositioned he says that he feels like he's
being really rude by saying "No" to girls. He
even thinks that he's being rude by saying "No
thanks" to strippers when we're in a lap dancing
club; you get some right wrongens stripping these days
and it seems they know that men find it hard to say 'no'
too; why else would they push themselves so hard onto punters?
I always see ...
6 Kommentare, 90 Angesehen,
9 Stimmen
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No means no 21.4.2008
Well you just have to speak up ur mind. No means no. That simple.
The more you are indecisive about it the more you will regret
it.
8 Kommentare, 338 Angesehen,
12 Stimmen
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Lets just face the fact 13.4.2008
Being all "adults" here at this site, it seems
to me that we could use a Little common courtesy. Its ok to
let someone know if your not interested, "thanks,
but no thanks". I don't think there's anything
wrong with that. Its not hard to understand, its our que
to move on. And move on we should. Rejection is a part of being
on this site. Lets just face that fact and go on and still
have fun.
7 Kommentare, 120 Angesehen,
15 Stimmen
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Telling Someone You Meet Sorry You Misrepresented 10.4.2008
I met someone through Transen Kontakte about 4 months ago and she was nothing
what she described. I had already booked the hotel room
for us to spend the night but when she arrived I just wanted
to run. I told her I needed to run out and get some drinks but
I never came back. She still called and wanted to meet again.
How do you tell someone sorry you are nothing close to what
I was looking for and still ...
8 Kommentare, 390 Angesehen,
19 Stimmen
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How do you do it 4.4.2008
Met a lady online-seemed great-got to know her very well
via email, shared pics (she loooks good)started talking
on phone, etc but her voice absolutely kills me-its awful...how
do artfully back away and not hurt her feelings to much?
4 Kommentare, 68 Angesehen,
5 Stimmen
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Why are some people so mean? 31.3.2008
I don't understand why some find it necessary to write
so cruelly when one says a polite "No thank you."
After responding rather than ignoring their communications,
and doing so in a polite and tactful way, I have encountered
such meaness in spirit that it makes me shake my head in disbelief.
Why?
14 Kommentare, 209 Angesehen,
14 Stimmen
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fisting 27.3.2008
do many women like fisting
3 Kommentare, 141 Angesehen,
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putting yourself in their shoe 16.3.2008
I always have a hard time with saying no too, then i start
thinking what if things were the other way around. If i was
the one who was extremely attracted to the girl and you absolutely
want to know what the hell does she think of you. you soon realize, that yes you might hurt her now but in the
long run it would be better than not hearing the truth.
0 Kommentare, 14 Angesehen,
4 Stimmen
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Unsure 25.2.2008
I have a male friend and hes is constantly flirting or making
comments that are suggestful. I usually laugh it off or
joke back with him but after knowing him for two months im
starting to think he might be serious. Any advice? Or maybe
I should ask him outright if he actually has feelings for
me?
3 Kommentare, 140 Angesehen,
5 Stimmen
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I'm not fond of smokers 23.2.2008
Peer pressure can often be quite subtle -- something as
simple as a passing suggestion or a visual cue is sometimes
all need to feel pressure to experiment with negative
behaviors. Meeting, and then resisting the challenges
posed by peer pressure takes courage and skill. By spending
time with your and teaching them the different
types of refusal lines they can use, they can decide which
one ...
0 Kommentare, 17 Angesehen,
3 Stimmen
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Letting her down easy. 18.2.2008
I'm curious to know when your not interested in a someone, what's
the best way to say it, so you don't hurt her feelings?
4 Kommentare, 42 Angesehen,
2 Stimmen
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no thanks? 15.2.2008
Fuck that....I say hell yeeeaaazzzzzz
1 Kommentare, 64 Angesehen,
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Know before you go 11.2.2008
Before you go and meet someone, you should really establish
that chemistry before you go play with them. People will
say anything to get laid. What would you like to hear?
3 Kommentare, 93 Angesehen,
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NO 3.2.2008
How do you tell someone that your not interested with out
hurting their feelings?
4 Kommentare, 88 Angesehen,
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a perfect no thanx 31.1.2008
I am not sure what the perfect rejection is, however i do
believe one that comes with a short explanation of why the
person who believed you had enough in common to be good 'adult-friends'
is not your type will recieve less Why nots or agressive
responses then ignoring or a auto reply does. just my thoughts
0 Kommentare, 58 Angesehen,
7 Stimmen
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no thanks 27.12.2007
its hard to do , but better for everyone to be polite and say
no thanks rather than nothing at all or being rude
7 Kommentare, 166 Angesehen,
15 Stimmen
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Why stand women up? 13.12.2007
Ok I don't get it.All the guys on here bitch and moan
about the lack of women willing to meet but how many of you
ladies have been left hanging at an agreed meeting place/time?I've
run into 2 so far and i know there are others out there that
have done it to some of you.So I have started a new group to
try and help weed out the repeat offenders and let others
know not to waste their time.My time ...
16 Kommentare, 265 Angesehen,
25 Stimmen
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are all the men on this site like this. 9.12.2007
i have noticed that alot of the men and some women on this
site will send you nasty emails if you tell them no thanks.
what happened the adult in Transen Kontakte.
7 Kommentare, 220 Angesehen,
22 Stimmen
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tough to say no 26.11.2007
I don't think it's in our nature to say no...
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I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW ONCE TIME MORE..... 20.11.2007
POOR DEVILS !!!! This is a follow up to my article " I would like..."
This time, and I am referring to the male sex. I would like
to bring up the many times in which I had the opportunity
to witness how far hypocresy was carried by many. The same one that today builds you UP tomorrow will insult
you and offend you.....and why?
GENTLEMEN!! ...
11 Kommentare, 476 Angesehen,
17 Stimmen
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no 25.10.2007
say no thanks
1 Kommentare, 30 Angesehen,
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The best way to say NO 25.10.2007
I think that there are many ways to say no to someone. The
best of course is being honest and telling them. Standing
someone up is not the way, too many do that, they say one thing
and then when you arrange to meet, they become a no show.
To me that is the cowards way out.
0 Kommentare, 38 Angesehen,
1 Stimmen
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Responding 12.10.2007
I have sent out a lot of emails to women asking them if they
would like to chat. Why are women so rude by not returning
the email? I understand maybe I'm not there type, blah,
blah, blah. but an email would be nice acknowledgement
that they aren't fake!
6 Kommentare, 178 Angesehen,
7 Stimmen
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