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No has never meant YES 26.8.2005
Whilst chatting in the rooms, I have noticed that a few ppl
are impolite when told NO. They don't like to be told
NO and they hope that if they persist, they will get you to
change your mind.
<br>
Well it won't. NO means NO, not maybe, or I'll think
about it, or keep trying and i'll then say yes. NO basically
means NO in whichever language you want.
If you persist, you may get ...
1 Kommentare, 80 Angesehen,
2 Stimmen
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Why is it that most men can't take no for a answer? 22.8.2005
We have been a member on here for a while. In our profile it
states that we are a couple looking for a couple or a bi female.
So why is it that most single men can't take no for a answer
and still manage to send messeges to you thinking that you
are a single female? We are happily married and aren't
looking for a single male yet we receive so many messeges
from single men all the time. Do ...
3 Kommentare, 186 Angesehen,
9 Stimmen
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Why can't older men realize age limits. 18.8.2005
I have only been a member for a short period of time, and within
that time, i have had alot of older men try to hook up with
me and my bf. Pay attention to age limits people. It sucks
to tell someone that they are too old, and that you aren't
interested. And it sucks even more when they think just
because they are older means they can please me. You know
a way you can please me, respect ...
12 Kommentare, 766 Angesehen,
31 Stimmen
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no 17.8.2005
no means no and every one should understand that and follow
it
0 Kommentare, 85 Angesehen,
5 Stimmen
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Help 17.8.2005
I met a girl in person after a few weeks of chatting on-line.
We got along very well, but when we met in person, she didn't
look anything like the picture she sent. I was very turned
off when I saw her. I wanted to leave, but I didn't want
to be rude. Any advice for getting out of this type of situation?
8 Kommentare, 503 Angesehen,
11 Stimmen
,4.85 Gesamtpunktzahl
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420 abuse on Transen Kontakte! 16.8.2005
recent;y i was directed by the adult freindfinder staff
to cease and desist any or all references to drug use in my
profile ! i complied(underderess)to the (demand)request!i
was under the impression that this was an "ADULT"
dating site and that a offended party could and would pass
me up for sumthing more suited to their taste ... but as we ...
5 Kommentare, 594 Angesehen,
41 Stimmen
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Is it possible? 14.8.2005
Have you ever been in that situation? You know, where you
just really don't want to go into anything and your
partner does?
<br>
What is the easiest way for you to break the news?
0 Kommentare, 169 Angesehen,
6 Stimmen
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Have you ever turned down sex with someone really attractive 13.8.2005
Do you ever find yourself looking back on life's choices
and saying what was I thinking? I find myself in that situation
almost daily. I can remember back to my teens when a really
hot girl wanted to have sex with me so bad she at some points
begged. The only reason I couldn't do it is because
she was engaged. At the time I could only think what if I was
that guy. I would be furious ...
1 Kommentare, 264 Angesehen,
13 Stimmen
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the sea is full of fish! 8.8.2005
it is o.k. to say no thanks to a propisition.
If someone says no or isn't ready for a relationship, respect
their right to say no.
it isn't just men who can't take no for an answer.
so all you ladies respect the right of men, because we have
feelings too.
1 Kommentare, 340 Angesehen,
10 Stimmen
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New to Transen Kontakte! 6.8.2005
Well, hello friends would like to start by saying this is
our first week on Transen Kontakte & the response we've gotten
is absolutely "GREAT"!! The people are very
friendly, polite, & sexy! Looking forward to that
first meeting with the guy of our choice & then hopefully
moving on to my first experiance with female or couple, whichever
cumms first!This cumming week should be very interesting
as we do ...
1 Kommentare, 207 Angesehen,
11 Stimmen
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I'm cool about it... 3.8.2005
I usually reply and I'm always nice about it if they're
not right for me. I just say 'Hi & thanks for the
interest.' It makes me happy that someone took a look
at my profile and liked what they saw.
0 Kommentare, 58 Angesehen,
5 Stimmen
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Ladies, are you tired of the 2.8.2005
Maybe it is just me, but every time I write to a fellow it seems
he is quick to go to the "if you are for real" card.
For example, "if you are for real, e-mail me at xxxxxxx,
or IM me tonight".
Personally, I find this insulting, fellas. Maybe some
people are not "for real" on this site and you
are just reacting habitually in that fashion. You should
think first, though, before saying ...
8 Kommentare, 414 Angesehen,
23 Stimmen
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guys 4 guys needs subcatagories 30.7.2005
The thing I keep running into is other bottoms. The men 4
men section needs to be subdivided into "top"
and "bottom", just as the men's adds are
divided into men 4 men and men 4 women. Otherwise we have
to go by what the add says and some ads don't say so you
end up hitting on someone with the wrong preference.
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0 Stimmen
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Just Say It 27.7.2005
Unfortunately not everyone clicks ... sometimes the chemistry
is not there for one or the other. Just be honest and say it.
You can do it in a nice way .. something like .. "I think
your terrific but the chemistry isn't there"
.. some will take it good and some will get nasty. I am considered
a MILF because of my age and the way I look, so I get hit on alot
by younger guys. Now, I have no ...
8 Kommentare, 379 Angesehen,
14 Stimmen
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Is there a proper way 24.7.2005
After chatting, meet and greet or whichever way you meet
and you don't feel a "connection" but they
do....how do you tell him, her or them that it just isn't
there?
1 Kommentare, 173 Angesehen,
5 Stimmen
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Why Gay & Bisexual Men Bug Straight Men 23.7.2005
(1) Your posting your pictures here to
view.
(2) Because everyone can view your
your pictures, many males find them
sexy and appealing.
(3) You can help what mother nature has
given you.
(4) A lot of men are wondering if your
swingers, from what most of you are
saying no not that way
(5) This site seems to cater more to
straights, ...
0 Kommentare, 155 Angesehen,
11 Stimmen
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In All Sincerity! 22.7.2005
Please read the person's profile, if possible. You
may not fit what they're seeking. Why place a person
in the postion of saying no thank you, if you are not what
they seek.
<br>
<br>
I am real and have my wants and limitations posted, so if
you disregard what I'm seeking, than why should I be
obligated to send you a response.
<br>
<br>
But anyway, ...
1 Kommentare, 291 Angesehen,
19 Stimmen
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Say Something!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 22.7.2005
Think back to the time when you went out with your family,
friends, school, ECT... you started to look around and
you see someone you just could not take your eyes off, so
you finally built up the courage to approach that person
and have a short conversation. You offer to exchange numbers
and the person replies how about you give me your number
instead? I will call you the first thing that ...
0 Kommentare, 86 Angesehen,
3 Stimmen
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men are eager, women are not 21.7.2005
I did a little survey on Transen Kontakte. I wrote that I was gay and got
bombarded by responses from men. Willing to do anything
and meet anywhere. Women on the other hand, want to correspond
with you. Get to know you. What's up with that?
<br>
Yes, all men are whores but women act refine and yet want
the same things. For men, they get right to the punch line
without asking for much in ...
2 Kommentare, 135 Angesehen,
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To be mean or not to be mean?? 18.7.2005
Why don't men understand that when we don't reply...it's
because we don't want to be mean!! If we reply and say
"Thanks, but no thanks" or "Sorry, not
interested", it makes us feel like we are being mean.
When we delete your profile and forget it was there, it's
just our little way of not even coming close to getting your
hopes up at all. I am sorry guys, but i am sick of the reply
that ...
5 Kommentare, 288 Angesehen,
11 Stimmen
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How do you not seem mean? 18.7.2005
So many of us get on this site everyday to see if we can find
what we're looking for. But why is it that the people
we send messages to never reply back to us, yet...we don't
reply to the people that contact us ourselves?? For me,
I still do enjoy getting on here in hopes that i will find
that person that fits my needs at this time, but in 10-20
more years, will we still be single and ...
0 Kommentare, 99 Angesehen,
8 Stimmen
,3.01 Gesamtpunktzahl
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When to say no. 17.7.2005
I have found that is is best to tell the other person things
are not going to work out when serious doubts and problems
arise. I feel this is the best time, it avoids wasting both
of our time.
1 Kommentare, 120 Angesehen,
4 Stimmen
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which one am I......... 10.7.2005
honestly, I beleive that I am a nice person. So, I am trying
to figure out which one I am... a bitch or a .Reason
for asking this when I say no to someone on Transen Kontakte they seem to
think I am being nasty to just them. When actually my mate
has a say in whom I choose for us.I beleive in his instincts, there
for if I do not choose someone it is because Iam being careful
not either of the above , ...
0 Kommentare, 191 Angesehen,
12 Stimmen
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Is it me or,, 10.7.2005
The people who have profile pics getting fucked are genreally
the ones that say "must be D&D free" or "D&D
free a must" but they're not using protection!?!
What's the deal with that? To that I say, No thanks...
2 Kommentare, 129 Angesehen,
6 Stimmen
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pubic hair 10.7.2005
Is there anyone else that is getting tired of completly
shaved females? I miss landing strips!! I find it some much
sexier to have a small patch of hair to nuzzle my nose against,
I'm not opposed to hard wood floors nice for a change
for for the every day give me an arrow, heart, love patch
whatever you wanna name it! DO find untamed wollies to bit
a bit of a turn off. I'm I the only one ...
4 Kommentare, 169 Angesehen,
5 Stimmen
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please be polite 9.7.2005
I relieze that I am the major majority here single male looking
for almost anything, but it irkes me when I send someone
an email with pic and a little blurb about me and get no response,
if your not interested I can handle just say thanx for showing
interest but your not what we want, promblem solved.
1 Kommentare, 66 Angesehen,
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How much is too much? 7.7.2005
Okay ladies, this one is for you. We hear it all the time.
We "never" reply to guys emails. But out of all
the hundreds we get. How can we afford the time to reply?
Not all of us can. But yet some of us auto reply. In an attempt
to be even minutly polite. Still some guys just can NOT take
a hint. So what do you do in these situations? Do you just
put them on ignore, or do you continue to ...
6 Kommentare, 422 Angesehen,
16 Stimmen
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oz chicks are harder 6.7.2005
In my experience in this world it is quite clear to me that
it would be harder to get a root from an Australian chick
rather from an American chick. With respect to all you lovely
American ladies but i think you are more liberated than
ours.
0 Kommentare, 149 Angesehen,
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Say what you mean!! 1.7.2005
Are there still people out there who know how to say what
they mean and be tactful? I have to ask because it seems like
most people I have had any contact with in this site say they
want to meet but never get back to set anything up. Most of
these contacted me first, but as soon as I agree to meet,
they disappear. If you change your mind why not just have
the courtesy and courage to let the ...
2 Kommentare, 95 Angesehen,
10 Stimmen
,5.18 Gesamtpunktzahl
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After you have met with someone for sex... 1.7.2005
Saying 'No Thanks' after you have already met
and had sex is difficult (I think). You don't want to
hurt their feelings, but you also don't really ever
want to see them again.
<br>
Maybe they just want to be friends. I just want to meet, fuck,
and if it was good do it again and again. But, if it was not
good, then I don't want to bother or be bothered by that
person again.
...
2 Kommentare, 183 Angesehen,
10 Stimmen
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