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You don't have to be rude to say no 22.5.2004
The best way to say no is to tell the man that they are attractive
but not your type, which is usually true. You don't
need to lie and you don't need to be rude to say no.
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Re: Women do not respond! 18.5.2004
Here we go again, another man complaining that women don't
respond. That maybe your experience, but don't lump
ALL women into this category, some of us do respond, either
to say "not interested" or "no thanks".
I agree that there probably are more women that don't
respond, but hey those are probably the ones that here drumming
up business for their porn site. Those of us who are actually ...
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Re: Hello Gents 13.5.2004
You don't have time to write and tell someone no thanks,
but you have time to read the magazine and write an article...........HHMMMMMMM
It takes MORE time to read the magazine, write an article,
or respond to one than it does to simply click on reply and
say "sorry, I'm not interested at this time".
0 Kommentare, 0 Angesehen,
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DECLINE! 12.5.2004
When receiving "Invites" to the “Friend Network”,
“ACCEPT” or “DECLINE”; do not just leave it pending. It
is not necessary to take time to write a lengthy rejection
letter; however, not taking the few seconds to decline
the offer is just plain laziness.
It is understandable if the receiver hasn't logged
onto the site in awhile for an ...
0 Kommentare, 8 Angesehen,
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Re: Married 11.5.2004
No, you shouldn't resort to kicking him in the balls,
that is something that is done in elementary school playgrounds.
It's very simple, if your uncomfortable because he
is married and lied about it, keep telling him NO. Eventually,
he will get the hint and move on to some other poor unsuspecting
soul.
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how to say no without hurting others 10.5.2004
I have recently become very active in the Transen Kontakte
site. I guess I am learning how to say "no".
I really prefer this way of chosing dates. It's great
to be able to get to know people I would not ordinally meet
because I don't usually have extra time to go out, and
I don't do the bar scene. Also we are lucky enough to
meet people that distance would never before allow, opening ...
0 Kommentare, 38 Angesehen,
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it's my choice! 8.5.2004
If you write me and I let you know you're not my type because
of your age, location, preferences, looks, whatever -
what makes you think that arguing with me about how X, Y, Z
is really a bonus rather than a turn off. Do you honestly
think telling me I'm wrong and you're right is
a way to get into my pants? get real.
0 Kommentare, 27 Angesehen,
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Difficulty saying "thanks, but no thanks" 5.5.2004
We are young couple, not models but are quiet attractive.
But for some reason we seem to only find couples how we really
don't hit it off with & when thy ask to meet &
get things going- we don't know how to tell them "We're
not interested in having sex etc with you"
Does anyone have any ideas on how to try & sort out they
problem of not wanting to offend, but at the same time telling ...
1 Kommentare, 71 Angesehen,
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saying no 3.5.2004
I have been talking to someone for quite awhile now but it
seems like its going no where. Then all of a sudden they want
to me. How do I say no to them but do it nice so I don't burn
any bridges?
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Saying "No Thanks" 1.5.2004
This article is for everyone.
<br>
Fill out your profile in full, do not do "prefers not
to say" unless it is about something that does not
need to be known like religion or income. Fill out your profile
truthfully a bi-female "looking for guys, girls,
3 somes, swaping..." who states in her profile that
she is looking for women or female couples just defeated
the star system ...
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Saying "No Thanks" - part 2 1.5.2004
One last very important note.
<br>
When you do Initiate contact.
1 - Introduce your self with a first name.
2 - Be polite.
3 - Tell the person a little bit about yourself.
4 - Ask questions about what you have read in their
profile.
5 - Write. No all caps, no abbreviations. Spell correctly
and use proper grammer and punctuation. That is unless
the person ...
0 Kommentare, 4 Angesehen,
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Painless ... 26.4.2004
It's pretty simple. When you get an email from somebody
you have no interest in getting to know, click "Reply".
Then type "No thanks" into the message area.
Click "send" and you're done. If you want
to be really nice, say something like, "Thanks for
your interest. I took a look at your profile and can see I'm
not the right guy for you. Good luck in your search."
If that's not good enough ...
0 Kommentare, 20 Angesehen,
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Re: Turning down a request 23.4.2004
Just be as honest as possible. If your not comfortable with
a person, let them know that. If your not interested because
of age or distance, let them know that also. This is what
I have done, and it seems to have worked. I do try to answer
all replies, and do it honestly and in a timely manner.
1 Kommentare, 5 Angesehen,
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Dont ppl understand the word NO 22.4.2004
Okay someone explain to me how many ways one can say..No
Thank You? I even been rude as fuck about it..yet to no avail.
Help!!!
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Having problems saying no! 22.4.2004
Having a girlfriend now and having to say no to beautiful
women is extremely hard!!
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Re: articles mhmmm 21.4.2004
Oh, please. You're on an adult sex personals site.
What makes you think that people on here are interested
in following scripture to the letter?
<br>
I'm far more concerned about the appalling lack of
correct grammar and spelling among teens than I am about
some swear words.
<br>
And "our "? Your profile says that
you're 19. I highly doubt that *you've* raised
any ...
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when to know 21.4.2004
I know that most women get a lot of emails from tons of guys
but when do men know that they are going too far I think that
if you email a person and after 5 or so you dont get a response
that it is time to move on
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Turning down a request 21.4.2004
Does anyone have a good way of saying forget it to someone
that you are not comfortable with besides telling them
to F off? Just ignoring is not really nice and I don't
want to hurt anyones feelings, but we want to make sure that
we have it with the person who we get together with. Any ideas?
0 Kommentare, 16 Angesehen,
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If the other partner isnt interested. 20.4.2004
That person should be polite about it and tell you they arent
interested. You should leave it at that. But at least you
have a right to know why are they arent interested. That
person who isnt interested should at least give you benefit
of the doubt first.
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Men need to learn when enough is enough 20.4.2004
Its one thing to have a sexual relationship with a third
person in a marraige, but it is completely another to cheat
on your wife. It is utterly stupid when you have everything
you could ever want in a woman and a sexual relationship.
A woman to fulfills your fantasies with you. I think it was
a mistake to be a good wife, a best friend, totally open and
honest with a person who is going to ...
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girls this is what you need to know 19.4.2004
Hi if your chating or emailing with someone and then stop
without at least emailing it is very hurtfull we guys like
to feel wanted same as you. If you decide to break it off then
tell us just because there are some assholes out there dosnt
mean you cant say goodbuy besides if you read the next email
from that person it will tell you what there really like
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It's quite simple... 14.4.2004
If you're chatting someone up online and giving it
all the charm than expect them to be already expectant of
a good time...
However if you use your brains and keep a respectful distance/don't
cyber and say you want to meet as friends only at first saying
"No" shouldn't be a problem
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the real reason 13.4.2004
Everyone is wondering why people do not reply saying "no
thanks." The main reason is because most people are
regular members and cannot send messages. They get one
reply a day, and dont want to waste it on a "no thanks."
Sure there are plenty of people who can send emails and choose
not to, but this is the main reason.
0 Kommentare, 15 Angesehen,
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people who send you an email then don't repl to your reply 7.4.2004
this site is about finding people looking for sex is it not.
if you just want to talk or date their are lots of site like
that online! so women put an add on here to just see how many
guys hit on them kind of a ego thing yes guys like the women
on here but if you put an ad on here you should be true and reply
to those who reply to your ad. and if you send a guy a email
saying your ...
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SEX 7.4.2004
IM A GUY AND I HAVE A VERY HARD TIME TURNING DOWN SEX. THE ONLY
WAY THAT I WOULD TURN DOWN ANY KINDA OF SEX IS IF I CAN SMELL
HER STINKEN PUSSY OVER A BARBEQUE GRILL.
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why can't you women just say no thanx..... 6.4.2004
when i have taken the time to read your advert..think about
what you've said and then taken the time to respond
with a polite response answering any qeustions you have
posed
....can't you at least have the decency to reply.even
if it's a no thank you! maybe Transen Kontakte could think of a "no
wink" or something.but i know i have been caught out..i
waited for a response from one lady...and ...
0 Kommentare, 2 Angesehen,
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Why are so many people rude? 6.4.2004
Can someone give me some insight?
I add people to my hotlist, I send invitations to join my
friends network, I let people know that i have pics in my
friends section, I contact people by the email and winks.
Out of the 43 people I have taken an interest in only 1 bothered
to deny my invite, 3 accepted, and the rest just blow me off.
I know they have been online and gotten the invite or ...
0 Kommentare, 14 Angesehen,
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how to say no thanks 1.4.2004
If someone shows interest in you and you are not interested....Please
at least email them back to say so. They did take the time
to send you an email afterall. I know everyone on here doesn't
always get a response from everybody they email. Doesn't
it make you wonder if they even heard from you?? Soo...the
next time someone takes the time to show some interest in
you but you aren't ...
0 Kommentare, 35 Angesehen,
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re: when the picture doesn't match the face 1.4.2004
Well, if you meet someone who sent you a picture of themselves
as they appeared more than 4 years ago, and they now look
very different (much larger, bald, much older, whatever)
you are dealing with someone who is not realistic in their
approach to others. Not a liar, just someone who probably
in their own mind doesn't realize they have changed
that much. It happens. If you're not ...
0 Kommentare, 19 Angesehen,
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wondering what you would do? 31.3.2004
We recently received a message from a couple asking if we
would like to get together. They were not our type, were
not close tour age group, and not to be rude but, they were
not attractive to us either.
<br>
So we responded with: "Although we are not interested,
thank you for taking the time to read our profile and sending
us your message."
<br>
The next day we ...
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