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cmaniece 51 P
10  Fragen
The question of Race... - 10.3.2009

I have to admit that I found the answers to the question of Marrying based on racial similarities really very nice. In a lot of ways I was not expecting so much support for interracial relationships. It has caused me to wonder a bit though.

I will admit that in regards to this site, I find myself being a bit standoffish when talking to many of the white members when they try to ...

18 response(s), 23 votes
rm_GoodGuy19603 63 M
104  Fragen
Televsion. Not Quite Real? - 10.3.2009

I was thinking that one reason television is so popular is because it shows us what we don't have. On television we all have good neighbours, lots of friends, we all are having sex (or soon will be!), the lawyers are caring and understanding and so are the doctors.Maybe we shoud turn off our TV screens and concentrate on getting these good things back into our lives? Any comments are most ...

7 response(s), 18 votes
rm_GoodGuy19603 63 M
104  Fragen
A Simple Country Life? - 10.3.2009

I am seriously thinking about moving out of the city to a nice little cottage in the country. I find I am overwhelmed by the excess of choice available in the city. Do we really need 20 types of baked beans and 3 rows of coffee in the supermarket to keep us happy?A simple country life looks very appealing to me right now. I welcome any responses from people espescially those that have made this ...

12 response(s), 24 votes
retirednteach 54 P
17  Fragen
Points - 10.3.2009

Why the bitching about standard member posting something on here for points? We have to do so in order to use this site.

Many members are berating us for doing what we are required to do. Both of us write well and have thoughts to share, not everyone does.

So why do poeple bitch for us doing what we are asked to do by the site?

16 response(s), 38 votes
whatzgoingon49 59 M
1  Frage
Just be yourself. - 10.3.2009

Why do women show pictures when they were young and less weight? When you meet them they don't look like there picture. Why not be yourself. That why when you meet you know if you are attraction to each other!

14 response(s), 18 votes
retirednteach 54 P
17  Fragen
Checking out the site - 10.3.2009

I have been here over a day now and due to severe insomnia I have read more of this forum (past and present) than a lot of people who have been here a while.

One thing I have noticed on this forum is the number of 'multi-profilers'. On another site we are allowed two profiles, one paid where we live and another unpaid profile(use our unpaid for an area we visit often).

I know ...

2 response(s), 10 votes
Fukcdoll 39 W
86  Fragen
Lust OR Luv? - 10.3.2009

OK if you were to read my profile you see it in big/ bold print:

NO RELATIONSHIPS, LOVE OR OBESSIONS- NO EXCPTIONS!

Well I kinda broke my own rule & have developed some intence feeling for one of my playmates. He feels the same way, but here's the catch...

I'm not looking for a 1 on 1 thing right now in my life, I'm still healing and licking my wounds from my last ...

9 response(s), 10 votes
buck_38555 71 M
23  Fragen
can u be in 2 places at once??? - 10.3.2009

last night I was bored so I decided to watch some people on cams..well this one lady was close to my home town, I scanned on down there she was agean in another state camming an yet when I scanned on down there she was agean in yet another country...how can she be in 3 places at the same time???all 3 cams were different...

4 response(s), 5 votes
buck_38555 71 M
23  Fragen
whats the difference??? - 10.3.2009

on a lot of profiles people put down that they are ample, some put down a few extra pounds...whats the difference between ample an fat??? Im 20# over weight so Im I ample or just a few extra pounds???

18 response(s), 22 votes
VincentVega2008 47 M
2  Fragen
How do I stop? - 10.3.2009

How can I stop the spam girls from looking at profiles and puttin in flirts, or is it possible?? ty

11 response(s), 11 votes
hellokitties69 53 M
26  Fragen
Pretending your lover is someone else - 9.3.2009

Back in college I had a girlfriend that I thought was the ultimate. One of her favorite sex games was role play where we could fantasize about someone we knew personally while we were fucking. You were allowed to call each other by that name, and given a description of what that person might say or do. If we wished we would have each other dress or use props to fulfill the fantasy. It takes self ...

10 response(s), 12 votes
hellokitties69 53 M
26  Fragen
Does anyone still appreciate foreplay (or am I hopeless)? - 9.3.2009

Okay, I got to ask if you think foreplay is over-rated. So us guys are supposed to be awful at it. But I love it! If I'm especially close to someone I love dressing them up in lingerie, making out like a "highschooler", talking dirty, massage, role play, toys, oral, any possible thing to make it hot, exciting, and to make the session steamier and longer. My last girlfriend wasn't good at it ...

21 response(s), 30 votes
rm_GoodGuy19603 63 M
104  Fragen
Our Ambitious Society? - 9.3.2009

I was thinking how our Society is geared towards material gain. It seems like everybody is working for a bigger house, a better car, a widescreen TV and a host of other consumer goods. Then the irony is when they are old and grey and have all these things all they want is somebody to talk to. This is why old people always seem to have time to talk to you at the Supermarket checkout. Have we got ...

17 response(s), 21 votes
rm_GoodGuy19603 63 M
104  Fragen
Any Truth In This? - 9.3.2009

I read something interesting the other day and I think it has an element of truth in it-

Marriage is the price men pay for sex,

Sex is the price women pay for love.

Any comments are most welcome.

19 response(s), 25 votes
rm_GoodGuy19603 63 M
104  Fragen
Breaking Up? - 9.3.2009

I have noticed an interesting trend in the ending of relationships over the last few years. Women will often leave a marriage even if they don't have somebody new whereas it seems that men always need another woman waiting in the wings when they decide to leave. Does this show that women are more courageous than men or is it just that men can't live without sex?

Any comments are most ...

12 response(s), 17 votes
queen_bee_lover 39 P
19  Fragen
to get married or not? - 9.3.2009

this is what I wonder , I have been married in the past and that did not work out . after a short separtion we got a divorce , now i met a man after the divorce , who seems too be the ideal man , i love him like i never loved another , but my thoughts are that i was wrong before , what if i was to get married and it did not work out again , then i will be under 3o with 2 ex husbands , now i know ...

10 response(s), 18 votes
rm_GoodGuy19603 63 M
104  Fragen
Marriage? - 9.3.2009

I have been divorced for 22 years (Is that a record?) and I have seen many marriages break up over that time and I have come to the conclusion that women and men are great as long as you are not married to them!Marriage tends to bring out the worst in people- guys leave their dirty clothes on the floor and want to watch the football instead of making love to their wives. I can only conclude that ...

13 response(s), 17 votes
rm_GoodGuy19603 63 M
104  Fragen
Ethnic Marriage? - 9.3.2009

I am curious as to other peeps thoughts about this. I know of one guy who fell in love with a very nice Australian woman but he married a lady from his own ethnic background so his parents would feel more comfortable around her and be able to converse with her in their own language. I was thinking that by the time you are in your thirties you should not still be seeking your parents approval in ...

16 response(s), 23 votes
rm_hunter197811 40 M
1  Frage
about poser,fake peoples?! - 9.3.2009

why would peoples join these web sides and they not even willing to give they real identity ?

17 response(s), 19 votes
ryan650925916 35 M
2  Fragen
i Love Anal - 9.3.2009

are girls into analing a guy?

12 response(s), 17 votes
ryan650925916 35 M
2  Fragen
anal fisting, anal play - 9.3.2009

i am a 22/m and i love to get analed. my girl doesnt, but i would like her to anal me some time or fisting me. how should i ask her>?

15 response(s), 14 votes
rm_CocoaSweeet 59 W
2  Fragen
IM Annoyances - 9.3.2009

I don't know....it must be a guy thing when they chat with women online. It's starts off as "Hi", and 99 times out of 100, before you can reply and click send, the next question is gonna be a physical one.

1. What do you look like? 2. Do you have a pic? 3. How big are your boobies? 4. What are your measurements? 5. Are you're boobies perky, saggy, fake, big or small? 6. ...

14 response(s), 19 votes
rm_GoodGuy19603 63 M
104  Fragen
Men And Women? - 8.3.2009

I have noticed that men spend their lives proving their worth to others.

Women spend their lives proving their worth to themselves.

Men learn to love the women they are attracted to.

Women learn to be attracted to the men they love.

Food for thought maybe?

11 response(s), 25 votes
rm_GoodGuy19603 63 M
104  Fragen
Deciphering Personal Ads? - 8.3.2009

I was reading some personal ads and here is my translation-

Fun loving-Alcoholic

Free Spirited-Flaky

Friends First-Trying to live down a reputation as a slut.

Sexually Adventurous-Bring your dog.

Own Business-Avon representative

Educated-Completed hairdressing course.

Finacially Secure-Got everything in the divorce settlement. ...

16 response(s), 28 votes
queen_bee_lover 39 P
19  Fragen
married? - 8.3.2009

you start chatting too a guy ., he is hot as hell , you really cannt wait too rip his cloths off and touch and explore his body then he says yeah i am married is that a issue ? i guess what i wonder is , if you are just looking for a sex partner once and every little while would it matter ?

21 response(s), 29 votes
rm_GoodGuy19603 63 M
104  Fragen
Sad Rejection - 8.3.2009

I am truly dismayed at the unfortunate and insensitive rejection got by the lady after she revealed her feelings towards her friend. It takes a lot of courage to open up and state your feelings towards another person and this guy was totally tactless and insensitive.He should at least made sure that if he wasn't wanting a relationship he would have left her feeling good about herself and not ...

14 response(s), 27 votes
rm_kwame361 45 M
10  Fragen
fucking position - 8.3.2009

what position in fucking is most enjoyable

20 response(s), 15 votes
passionseeking68 47 W
1  Frage
Sex on your period or not ? ? - 8.3.2009

I heard it can help a woman's cramps. But also it can cause a man to get an bladder infection. I really dont want to cause my lover any pain cuz of me being such a horndog. Any other thoughts ? ? ?

24 response(s), 35 votes
glidecc 49 M
12  Fragen
Are Testimonials OK as Long as You Don't Kiss and Tell? - 8.3.2009

What do you guys think of posting testimonials on profiles as long as there is no "kissing and telling"?

I don't mean posting a testimonial about how a woman was a freak in bed, deep throated me and loved it in the ass.

I mean just saying that a woman was real, looked like her pictures and was fun to have a drink with. Maybe more than that happened but I wouldn't be telling. ...

9 response(s), 20 votes
FunCpl662007 32 P
3  Fragen
Does swinging help or hurt a relationship? - 8.3.2009

Just wondering what experiences people have had and whether swinging has impacted a relationship in a positive or negative way.

13 response(s), 24 votes